The 50% Rule by Mark Manson (aka Entropy)

The 50% Rule is simple, yet the ramifications for improvement are huge. The rule states this:

At least 50% of your advances towards women should be rejected. If less than 50% are rejected, then you are not being aggressive enough.

Take a moment and think about that. The implications run pretty deep. This means that 50% of your approaches should be rejected, 50% of your attempts to kiss should be rejected, 50% of your phone numbers should flake, 50% of your attempts to get her into bed should be stopped.

Now you probably think I’m crazy. You WANT us to get rejected? Either that, or you’re saying something like, “Oh, way more than 50% of my advances are rejected, and it sucks.”

Here’s why the 50% rule is important: too many guys play it safe, too many guys aren’t aggressive enough. Too many guys wait for the “right” moment and end up passing up plenty of opportunities. If rejection didn’t matter, then you’d take every opportunity, right? That’s what we should be striving for. Let me provide just a few examples where the 50% Rule can come into play and seriously help a guy out.

• A guy who always waits for the “perfect” moment to kiss a girl. He passes up tons of opportunities, but he never gets rejected either.
• A guy who passes up approaching tons of attractive women because they have an iPod on, they’re in an elevator, they’re walking the other way, or they’re with other guys. He waits for women who he knows are easy to approach instead and avoids the rejection.
• The guy who only calls phone numbers of girls he knows really liked him, not bothering with the women who seemed to give him their number out of politeness.
• Not trying to bring a woman home because he doesn’t want to seem rude. Instead he waits for next time, when often there isn’t a next time (and often there isn’t because he didn’t take her to the bedroom!)

But going a level deeper, the 50% Rule doesn’t just condition a guy to become more aggressive, it’s a tool that guarantees constant improvement, because it applies to any guy, no matter what his experience level. Some guys get decent with women, and get to the point where they rarely approach but rarely get rejected, they rarely get turned down on kisses or sex, but they rarely try. This rule applies to me just as much as it applies to the next guy. If I’m able to pick up every woman I approach, then I’m doing something WRONG, not right. I’m not being aggressive enough. I’m playing it too safe, and I’m leaving a lot of opportunity on the table.

Your brain WILL fuck you up

Your brain WILL fuck you up, all these negative beliefs, negative thoughts that hold you back. Don't fucking listen to it, it's NOT YOU. Do what you want, without holding back. Just don't think about it, your brain is your biggest enemy. JUST DO IT.

Whatever you want to say, say it.
Whatever you want to do, do it.

Your mind is just a display of conditioning of your past, of thoughts, of things people have told you, things you've read, your own idea's, things you've watched on TV.... all of which changes.

Think back 10 years and you'll probably think; "Well, I thought I knew what was going on then, but now I'm 10 years older and now I REALLY know what's going on"

But of course, in another 10 years you'll feel like what you knew now was very immature.

We're constantly growing, therefore to trust your own mind is a mistake.

From: The Way of the Superior Man (by David Deida)

Recent example I have: I was in class, scared of going for the It's On Moment (which basically is Mutual Hand Caressing), I was thinking about grabbing this chick's hand and playing with it. But....my brain was having an inner struggle:
- "JUST GO FOR IT MAN, GO FOR IT."
# "No, don't do it, what if other people see it? What if the teacher sees it. THEY'LL DRAW ATTENTION TO IT!"
- "JUST GO FOR IT MAN, ESCALATION HAS ALWAYS ENDED UP WELL FOR YOU"
# "No, don't do it... what if she rejects you? What if... what if... WHAT IF..."
- "JUST FUCKING DO ITTTTTTTTTTTT"
# "Okay, you know what, when she places her hand real close, THAT'S when you do it.. okay?"

Finally, my brain was compromising and got to a mutual agreement. I'm gonna do it.

- "Alright, you've had your way, her hands are relatively close to yours... fucking do it now!"
# "Nono, wait.. what if she thinks you're weird and you blow it with her?"
- "Dude... escalation is the way forward, even if she rejects you, you're still moving FORWARD. JUST DO IT"
# "Nonono, butbutbutbut, what if, what if, what if"


In the end I said: "Fuck you brain", and just did it. It took me a good 15-30 minutes. And I didn't concentrate at the class that was giving, I was just listening to my brain arguing.

So I did it anyway... and she reciprocated, started playing with my hands too. It was awesome.

School Camp

School camp was awesome!

I'm okay with leading perfect strangers. Some examples: When playing soccer I instantly took charge and told them what I wanted to do: "Alright, let's play 'tienen'" *to the group*. And then some people said alright let's do that, some people disagreed and wanted to play something else, but what's important is that I instantly led the interaction.
Led during the scavenger hunt; walked in front, took the map, saying let's go here, let's do this.

It all comes naturally now.

I held back "game"-wise, (they are still classmates, don't want to be the "weird" dude). This means that I didn't go direct with words like "sexy", etc. Though after getting to know some girls I still said it. Just not TOO soon, on opener. Not sure if I ever will go direct on campus... I mean, school is like social circle, do you ever go cold approach direct at a house party? That just seems fucking weird to me. Plus reputation is a huge thing in school, I think. How to incorporate "not giving a fuck", with being careful about what people think about my reputation? Hmmm, still not sure. Maybe just do what's familiar and what has worked in the past, and stay away from the more risky "game" stuff. Leave that stuff for clubs/streets. In other words; calibrate.


My openers were indirect/situational. Was comfortable in every conversation. Comfortable with silence, other people filled in the void. And basically just let conversation come to me, saying whatever was on my mind. Commenting on surroundings. Making jokes whenever they arose. (People not laughing at my jokes is a HUGE turn off for me... my jokes are funny, you just don't share the same humor, it's okay. :))

My openers were stuff like:
- *after a teacher spoke* "What did he just say?"
- "Hey, do you know what we're eating tonight?"
- "What's on the agenda for today/tomorrow"
- "Would you happen to have a cigarette for me?"


Topics we talked about: Relationships/sex, hobbies/aspirations, what's going on at camp (how they liked the scavenger hunt for example), vacations, etc

At times I just decided to say: "fuck my current group", and just sit with a random group of girls (IT'S NOT WEIRD). This was awesome as it expanded the range of people I know. Plus it allowed me to not get into that dreaded zone where you go to camp, and only know a bunch of guys/geeks and stick to them the whole way through (and even through school)

Overall my objectives were met. Socialize with hot chicks. I didn't force anything (cold approach), I could/should have done it (indirect/situational approach), but I'm still satisfied with the way things worked out;
Made some awesome friends, collected numbers at the end, could have fucked a cute chick if she didn't have a boyfriend (who knows, maybe someday if the sexual tension stays present and we're in a room 1on1, pretty positive I could break her in that situation haha, dunno if I want to break up a happy 2 year relationship) and got a dinner-date pretty soon with a cool/hot/single chick.

With dinner-date girl, I also kept making roleplays/references like: "These houses here look awesome, we should go live here". And she mentioned she had a mosquito problem, so I said to her: "Alright cool, remind me to bring lemons when I sleep over, else I won't survive the night." (In the back of my mind if she objected I could've went direct: "Yes, eventually we're going to fuck.", or the better route in that situation would've been to say: "Yeah, after you give an awesome party, I don't wanna go home, so I'm gonna stay over, if you don't mind ;)", with no sexual intent there, obviously). But she didn't object/say anything, so..... even better. :)

How I setup the dinner date:
This whole conversation might look a bit boring in text, but the overall vibe was awesome, we had a lot of fun talking and the bus trip just flew by. One fatal mistake I made was not saying WHEN, but it just kinda flew by as: someday we'll have a dinner-date. (Not good)

Anyway, I wanted to say to her: "Let's say we have a relationship, for like 6 months, and my friends came over for dinner, what would you cook for them?", NOT as a pickup qualifying technique or whatever, I was generally curious, because.... well, I love food. But it's fucking weird to just say this out of the blue... so I took a couple of minutes to think on how to set it up so it isn't weird... and I'm a fucking genius, it went like this:

Me: "Hey, so you live by yourself... you must be a pretty good cook then?"
Her: "Obviously... you kinda have to if you live on your own"
Me: "Well, not necessarily, maybe you live on microwaved dinners or something, I dunno"
Her: "hahaha"
Me: "I suppose that IS really unhealthy though..."
Her: "Yeah :P"
Me: "Alright, so you say you're an awesome cook.... let's say we had a relationship and have been together for 6 months... and my friends came over for dinner, what would you cook them?"
Her: "uuhh... I dunno.... depends what mood I'm in, what your friends like to eat, etc"
Me: "Hmmm... alright, well these guys are my best friends, how would you impress them?"
Her: "Still dunno :o"
Me: "Alright haha, let me say it in a different way, let's say we're celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary, how would you impress ME? What would you cook?"
Her: "Well... I dunno what you like... so?"
Me: "That's true... but I'm just curious as to what is like your specialty... the best dish you can make ;)"
Her: "Hmmm... Lasagna!"
Me: "Awesome! I love Lasagna.... it's hard to make though"
Her: "Not really, how hard is it to make Lasagna? haha"
Me: "Well, some people make like Lasagna soup, and some people use too little sauce and it's too dry. And then some make it so it has no flavor to it."
Her: "Well, yeah I suppose you're right, yeah haha"
*some silence*
Me: "Man.... you got me hungry for Lasagna now!"
Her: "Haha"
Me: "You know I'm going to have to taste that awesome Lasagna you make now, right?"
Her: "Haha, yeah! :P"
Me: "Or we could just make it together... as in a date ;)"
Her: "Yeah, sure, sounds cool ;)"


I'm a fucking genius.

An approach a day keeps the guru away.

It's true.

Crazy adventures in Spain

You're NEVER, and I mean NEVER, going to belief what has happened to me in the last few days.

First of, greetings from Spain, a country I will crown as having one of the hottest woman.

So, on to my story, I went out and went to a bunch of different clubs until I've reached one with loads of hot woman, from the start they were all very wild, crazy dancing, so I got myself over there and started dancing with this very hot Spanish chick. Immediately I start to curl my hands in hers, kinoing, all that good stuff, and we start to makeout. So after a while I say to her: ''Quiero coger tu culo, porque te amo'' (I want to fuck you in the ass, because I love you), she goes: ''wow, that's very direct!'', I was like: ''yea well... You're hot so...'', we start to dance more and I say to her: ''You want to get out of here to mine?''. And she goes: ''No..... But uhhh how you say, bathroom?''.
Me: ''Sure, let's go!'' and I start leading her.

At this point I was still in denial. It can't be this easy, she must've meant something else.

We arrive at the bathroom and we make out more and I'm thinking: ''Fuck, she didn't come here for nothing'' and I start unbuttoning her pants and well.... Need I say more?

So not only did I pull my first SNL in under 5 minutes with a very hot Spanish chick (exactly my type, nice ass, slim body, cute face) that I know nothing about other than her name, in a public bathroom in the club, but...

.... That's not even the crazy part, it gets better.

The next day we text back and forth, and I try to meetup with her. She wants it too (I was expecting a flake due to the quickness of the SNL,,etc).

So the whole night we're texting back and forth but she kept saying stuff like: ''oh, I'm dancing with friends now, sorry'', So at the end of the night while walking home I decided fuck it, I'm calling her. She picked up and was excited, told me where to go. So me and my friend start walking back towards the club. (yeah, my friend too, I thought if I'm getting pussy then so is he :p)

And when we get there all the clubs are closed, she's waiting outside with 2 of her female friends and 1 male. We say hello, I kiss my girl and we start walking along the coast of the beach. After a while they sent the other guy home, so now it was me, my friend bv and 3 spanish chicks. At this point they kept talking in Spanish, but man, some words are just easy to understand in English too.

Her friend said I should show my abs, and she was like: yea, very.. Nice! (I don't even work out and have NO sixpack at all). So I went: ''I like your friend'' and she misinterpreted and shouted excitedly: ''He likes me? Oohhh! Trio trio!''. I'm like, wait.. Did she just say threesome?

So I told my girl, no, I didn't mean it like THAT, I don't want a threesome.

So we kept walking and I don't know wtf happened but these chicks were talking in Spanish and the only words I could make out were: ''Trio'' and ''Orgy sa la playa'' (playa = beach)

My friend and I kept highfiving each other and kept thinking we were both dreaming and that we would wake up any minute, because like... Well... Wtf?

Both of these days I didn't use any game, just kino and 3D escalation I suppose.

So anyway, we got to a quiet area on the beach and they start kissing each other, they start kissing us. And somehow I landed myself in a foursome or orgy or I dunno wtf this is.

Okay well that's the cool and crazy part and I don't think anyone will believe it, but, it's a very true story. I'm still wet from the shower I took to get the sand out of my butt-cheeks and dick.

Now here comes the sucky part..... It was such a high pressure situation, with the sand being everywhere and the multiple people and all, that I couldn't get it up (only semi erect). And the fact that they kept saying stuff like: "bla bla bla disfunctionale!" and laughing didn't help either. They kept trying though, bless their hearts, kept sucking my dick, stroking, kissing, etc. But, no dice.

Oh well..... I still had a crazy time, awesome adventure and a story that will beat anyone else's story at a cocktail party.

Plus it was still fun to have 2 girls suck my dick while I look over to the left and see my friend fucking this other Spanish chick.

Priceless...

The Right Mindset by Sinn

People often talk ask me what my mindset is about meeting girls, dating, pick up etc...

So I figured I should write a post about what I believe to be the perfect mindset for getting better at pickup.

Ready for it?

You have to not care, but still do the approaches.

And this is where the difficulty comes in.

Most guys who are reading this care too much. They think that getting a girlfriend or being able to get laid regularly is magically going to fix their lives and make them happy. Or they believe the marketing hype that they can get amazing results with women quickly with no time effort or energy and they care about getting the results they were promised. Or they get competitive or make getting women some sort of measurement of how successful of a guy they are and they have to be better then this guy or get X amount of girls into bed a month.

The point is they(You and me) care about this shit too much.

If you took the average guy off the street and asked him on a 1-100 scale how much he cares about getting laid more than he is right now, the majority of them would say 51% they would prefer to get laid more than they are versus the alternative, but they aren't willing to put the time effort and energy into it.

If you took the average guy who is involved in this stuff they would say 85-90%. Or in other words getting more girls or getting laid is THE most important thing in their lives.

This is a mindset that is going to fail you both in the short term and the long term. In the short term Pickup is hard in the beginning and if it's the most important thing in your life, you're going to be failing at what you consider the most important thing in the world which will make you feel bad. In the long term it makes you either hugely bitter (If you never get success) or feel like your entire life and whole sense of self worth is directly related to whether or not a stranger likes you...

Hopefully the past few paragraphs have illustrated why you shouldn't care so much about this stuff. Take it for what it is one of MANY different ways to meet women. There is no prize for being great at cold approach, nor does anyone other than YOU care about your sex life.

But if you stop caring completely then why even approach? Why not just continue to sit on the couch and waste away?

So how do you reconcile these two ideas into the right mindset?

You care about trying.

That's it.

You only need to care that you are actually making an effort. If you're making an effort and the results aren't coming, you can feel good knowing you did your best. You don't have to be perfect with women or some sort of "master pick up artist" all you have to do is care about trying, do the approaches and not worry about the rest.

JS-The King Of Content

Practicing daygame did wonders for my nightgame

This night was SO much fun, I kept saying: "I hope it never ends.", still not sure why. But I think it has to do with the fact that I wasn't filtering myself. And wasn't thinking about "Game", or thinking about how I suck for not approaching anyone.

Used halfahug a lot of times. It's still gold.
Eye contact + blank stare + silence = still golden.
Screening for good logistics = still gold.
I don't know why, but this line is awesome: "At first I thought you were X, but I was totally wrong! You're awesome."
    X = boring, unfriendly, prude, etc

So I started off getting free entrance and I walked off somewhere thinking all my friends were following me, but they didn't. So I was alone on the dancefloor dancing. Started randomly pointing at girls and singing to the lyrics. One girl very receptive so I just started dancing in their group. It looked like I was there with them. (I didn't really care, dancing alone is pretty fun)
No one was really hot though, so I was just kinda dancing, having fun.
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So as I was walking around and I kinda got eye contact with this girl as I was walking past, and it was rude of me not to say anything...
Me: "Hey!"
and then this came out for some reason... because it was true:
Me: "I lost my friends!... well if you lose your friends you gotta make new ones right? I'm Coldman"
Her: "I'm blablabla"
Me: "Cool, so who are you here with?"
Her: "These girls here!"
Me: "Awesome... so what's like your most awesome passion?"
Her: "My passion is my boyfriend"
Me: "Awesome... but besides your boyfriend what's your passion?"
Her: "It's still my boyfriend..."
*At this point her friend who was sitting next to her interjects, tapped me and introduced herself*
*Started the IOM, and all throughout the interaction I was curling my fingers in hers, stroking her hands, etc... she didn't reciprocate"
*The whole interaction I played with her hands, put them on my body, got in close, put my hands on her hips/lower back and repeated the process*
Me: "Who are you here with?"
Her: "Ohh just these guys here! And you? Who are YOU here with?"
Me: "This awesome guy behind you!"
Me: "Hey dude, I'd like to introduce you to someone."
*introduced them to eachother... and no, he wasn't some random dude haha, he was actually 1 of the guys I came with*
Me: "So yeah, this guy, and there are some more friends I've lost outside somewhere... actually, we should go look for them together. Let's go"
*She was very compliant and wanted to go, but her friend held her back and they got to talking*

Me *interjects and started talking to the friend: "Hey, so me and your friend are just gonna go check out that lamp over there... we'll be right back, 10 seconds."
Her friend: "Nooooo, I'm not leaving her alone with you!"
Me: "Awesome... I like you already... cause you hang out with cool people, and you're very protective of them... I like that. But we'll be right back, 10 seconds, I swear."
Her friend: "Nooo, I'm coming with her."
Me: "Alright cool... of course you can come along too. Let's go! Btw, look out for us while we're walking in case we get attacked by ninja's."
Her friend *Puzzled look*: "Ninja's? haha okay :P"
*Not the best case scenario, but I didn't win over the friend yet, I got them moving though, awesome, 3D escalation.*

So I was walking in front while holding my girls hands, put them on my chest while walking.
As we were walking I said to her: "I think you're really cool, and it's a shame that I have a rule that I don't makeout in bars, else I'd totally kiss you right now. But hey, it's a rule I have."
Her: "Well isn't that a good thing? :D"
I didn't respond, I just went silent and looked at her.... gotta love it. ;)
*Started walking again, came outside, so at this point it was a group of 4 people; Me, my friend, my girl, and her friend*

Me: "So how do you guys know eachother? I bet you're like bff's."
Them: "Yeaa, we've known eachother from school blablabla"
*Some talk about school/passions to my girl*
Me to my girl's friend: "You know, I still think it's awesome, you're very protective of your friend, I really like that."
blablabla
Her: "So how old are you anyway?"
Me: "Probably too old for you haha" *while turning my body away from her for a split second while saying it, I was doing it as sort of a tease/takeaway*
"I don't know why this came out, maybe because I got so much compliance that I knew that it would get her chasing more?"
Her friend: "She's seventeen!"
Me: "Well there you go! I'm 21 :o"
blablabla
Me: "So how did you get here?"
- By public transport, taking the bus back home to the same location that I had to go too.

Me whispering in my girl's ear: "Hey, so you know what I want to do with you... we'll go to vegas, get married under mini elvis, and the next day I'll divorce you and take half your shit"
Me: "Got anything awesome at home?"
Her: "No :P"
Me: "A cool tv?"
Her: "No :P"
Me: "A Nintendo Wii?"
Her: "No :P"
Me: "Alright, well you gotta have a kitchen... I'll take that in the divorce"
Her: "hahaha my kitchen?!"
Me: "Yeah... and guess what you can have.... ALL MY BILLS!"
Her: "haha, we just met and you're already talking about getting married?! :P"
Me: "Of course... and a divorce... we're gonna have a quick romance."
Me to her friend: "So me and your friend really like eachother... are you cool with that?" *while hugging my girl*
Her friend: "Uuuhh.. Yeah... sure.. why not."

Some more talk, they were gonna go at this point, so instead of plowing through (which I can now see was a mistake to NOT do, even though I totally had nothing left to say.) I went for the numberclose.
Me: "Lemme grab your number, cause you're cute and I want to see you again. And when it's time to go home we'll grab that bus together ;)"
#numberclose
Her friend said something, can't remember what, to which I replied: "Oh... I'm just gonna start stalking her and call her 3 times a day, but that's about it."
Her friend: "Oooh haha, well if that's all, then fine :P"

Her friend: "So aren't you going to buy her a drink?"
lol wtf? Totally unexpected. Maybe she wanted to grab a free drink before they went off, or maybe she was trying to wing me... but I doubt it, cause throughout the interaction she was being a massive cockblock.
Me: "Uhhhh... sure, when I meet you guys later I promise I'll buy her a drink"
*Now thinking back, I should've bought her a slapshot... not sure if her friend would like it though if I did it in front of her. It would've been awesome nonetheless.*
*Also, buying her a drink allowed for more 3D escalation, and some more time to think of more stuff to say/do.*
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*A girl had to pass through to get to her friends.*
Me: "Sure, but you have to introduce yourself first, else you can't pass"
*Started the IOM, and all throughout the interaction I was curling my fingers in hers, stroking her hands, etc... she didn't reciprocate"
*The whole interaction I played with her hands, put them on my body, got in close, put my hands on her hips/lower back and repeated the process*
Me: "You look like you lost your friends"
her: "No I didn't, they are right over there actually." *points in the distance*
her *out of the blue*: "I WANT TO GO DANCE" *drags me to the dance floor*
lol wtf? That's never happened to me before. Pretty awesome. She was leading me to the dancefloor while holding hands.

Me: "Wow, you're so sexy, if I hadn't just met you I would totally kiss you right now... I have a rule though, I don't kiss in bars." (Saying it while touching her cheek with mine, because it was so damn loud in there)
*At this point I didn't really want to dance*
me: "Come here" *Led her back outside again*
blablabla (talk about logistics/school/passions)
- A friend of hers drove her there

I was mostly just being silent and looking in her eyes, at one point she blurted out: "You're really cute!" to fill the silence... awww I like compliments :)

And at this point I fucked up... I don't know why, but I wanted a makeout lol, she was really hot. Maybe to boost my ego, or maybe to show off to my friends... or maybe because the sexual tension was so high that I just totally wanted to taste her sexy lips.
So... I walked her off to a corner outside the club and basically said "Well... my rule was that I don't makeout in bars... but technically we're not IN a bar anymore, and went in for the kiss (The gap wasn't very far to kiss her because we were already standing really close, touching eachother.)"
The makeout was not too long, and not too short. Like 30 seconds I think.
Afterwards I kinda picked up on my (obvious) mistake and told her: "I hope no one saw that... I like being discreet", etc
At this point I should've sat down and do strawberry fields. But it didn't came to mind at the time.
She had to get back to her friends so I numberclosed her and we agreed to meetup later in the night.
I also forgot to ask her plans for later. Damn. I should've tried to go for the pull?
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Spotted 2 gorgious girls, I think it was the only one that I approached intentionally throughout the night from across the room. Asked for them to take a picture of me and my friends. And then afterwards started talking to her.
Me: "Hey, I'm Coldman btw"
Her: "blabla I have a boyfriend", saying it with a straight and whiny face... she definitely was not interested.
Me: "Awesome... yeah my boyfriend is over there as well."
Me: "So how do you guys know eachother?"
Her ignoring me, playing with her phone.
Me: "Btw, you TOTALLY SUCK at making photo's... you're like the worst photographer EVER! haha it's all black and there was no flash!"
*Note: My phone doesn't have a flash*
Me: "I give you a 4 out of 10 at making pictures."
Her still ignoring me.
Me: "Hmmm... I know you don't actually have a text or are doing anything useful on your phone there..."
Her still ignoring me.
Me: "Wouldn't it be so awkward if I were to just stand here throughout the night, saying absolutely nothing?"
Her still ignoring me.
Me *turned to friend*: "Is she always like this?"
Her friend: "She has a boyfriend"
Me: "I never said I wanted to be her boyfriend"
Her friend: "Hey.. let's go"
Me: "Nah, fuck it, you guys stay, I'm gonna go ;) Have a nice night."

This interaction was fun, I had fun just messing around with them.


At one point the bartender came up to us trying to get us to buy drinks. All throughout the conversation I made statements that she's cute, that I liked the flower she had in her hair, and asking for logistics (what time she got off and how she got there, etc), I was also telling her that when she got off work that we would go back to my place lol. She smiled throughout the conversation and wasn't offended at any point. I'm gonna start hitting on bartenders more haha it's fun.

Throughout the night I didn't really approach. I only opened girls that walked past me or that I walked past. But I ALWAYS ALWAYS introduced myself to as many people as I could that were in close proximity.
and all throughout the night I was thinking to myself: Everyone is my friend. Had oneliners with random guys. Stuff like when the music stopped for a second: "Wait for it! It's coming...!" (Him agreeing/smiling)
Was talking to random guys at the bar, screening for logistics? lol (It's so automatic now, who are you here with, etc)

My overall vibe was being playful and teasing, smiling the whole time with a "everyone is my friend"-mentality. I also didn't give a shit and was saying whatever came to mind AND THAT I THOUGHT WAS FUNNY/IMPORTANT TO SAY. (Sometimes random thoughts came into my head and I went: Nah... that's not fun/important, so I let it go.)


I'm still not setting up the date before numberclosing (I forgot), I have a feeling they're gonna flake.
The sexual tension mostly came from nonverbals. Her blurting out: "You're cute", is a definite sign that there is sexual tension present.