Practicing daygame did wonders for my nightgame

This night was SO much fun, I kept saying: "I hope it never ends.", still not sure why. But I think it has to do with the fact that I wasn't filtering myself. And wasn't thinking about "Game", or thinking about how I suck for not approaching anyone.

Used halfahug a lot of times. It's still gold.
Eye contact + blank stare + silence = still golden.
Screening for good logistics = still gold.
I don't know why, but this line is awesome: "At first I thought you were X, but I was totally wrong! You're awesome."
    X = boring, unfriendly, prude, etc

So I started off getting free entrance and I walked off somewhere thinking all my friends were following me, but they didn't. So I was alone on the dancefloor dancing. Started randomly pointing at girls and singing to the lyrics. One girl very receptive so I just started dancing in their group. It looked like I was there with them. (I didn't really care, dancing alone is pretty fun)
No one was really hot though, so I was just kinda dancing, having fun.
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So as I was walking around and I kinda got eye contact with this girl as I was walking past, and it was rude of me not to say anything...
Me: "Hey!"
and then this came out for some reason... because it was true:
Me: "I lost my friends!... well if you lose your friends you gotta make new ones right? I'm Coldman"
Her: "I'm blablabla"
Me: "Cool, so who are you here with?"
Her: "These girls here!"
Me: "Awesome... so what's like your most awesome passion?"
Her: "My passion is my boyfriend"
Me: "Awesome... but besides your boyfriend what's your passion?"
Her: "It's still my boyfriend..."
*At this point her friend who was sitting next to her interjects, tapped me and introduced herself*
*Started the IOM, and all throughout the interaction I was curling my fingers in hers, stroking her hands, etc... she didn't reciprocate"
*The whole interaction I played with her hands, put them on my body, got in close, put my hands on her hips/lower back and repeated the process*
Me: "Who are you here with?"
Her: "Ohh just these guys here! And you? Who are YOU here with?"
Me: "This awesome guy behind you!"
Me: "Hey dude, I'd like to introduce you to someone."
*introduced them to eachother... and no, he wasn't some random dude haha, he was actually 1 of the guys I came with*
Me: "So yeah, this guy, and there are some more friends I've lost outside somewhere... actually, we should go look for them together. Let's go"
*She was very compliant and wanted to go, but her friend held her back and they got to talking*

Me *interjects and started talking to the friend: "Hey, so me and your friend are just gonna go check out that lamp over there... we'll be right back, 10 seconds."
Her friend: "Nooooo, I'm not leaving her alone with you!"
Me: "Awesome... I like you already... cause you hang out with cool people, and you're very protective of them... I like that. But we'll be right back, 10 seconds, I swear."
Her friend: "Nooo, I'm coming with her."
Me: "Alright cool... of course you can come along too. Let's go! Btw, look out for us while we're walking in case we get attacked by ninja's."
Her friend *Puzzled look*: "Ninja's? haha okay :P"
*Not the best case scenario, but I didn't win over the friend yet, I got them moving though, awesome, 3D escalation.*

So I was walking in front while holding my girls hands, put them on my chest while walking.
As we were walking I said to her: "I think you're really cool, and it's a shame that I have a rule that I don't makeout in bars, else I'd totally kiss you right now. But hey, it's a rule I have."
Her: "Well isn't that a good thing? :D"
I didn't respond, I just went silent and looked at her.... gotta love it. ;)
*Started walking again, came outside, so at this point it was a group of 4 people; Me, my friend, my girl, and her friend*

Me: "So how do you guys know eachother? I bet you're like bff's."
Them: "Yeaa, we've known eachother from school blablabla"
*Some talk about school/passions to my girl*
Me to my girl's friend: "You know, I still think it's awesome, you're very protective of your friend, I really like that."
blablabla
Her: "So how old are you anyway?"
Me: "Probably too old for you haha" *while turning my body away from her for a split second while saying it, I was doing it as sort of a tease/takeaway*
"I don't know why this came out, maybe because I got so much compliance that I knew that it would get her chasing more?"
Her friend: "She's seventeen!"
Me: "Well there you go! I'm 21 :o"
blablabla
Me: "So how did you get here?"
- By public transport, taking the bus back home to the same location that I had to go too.

Me whispering in my girl's ear: "Hey, so you know what I want to do with you... we'll go to vegas, get married under mini elvis, and the next day I'll divorce you and take half your shit"
Me: "Got anything awesome at home?"
Her: "No :P"
Me: "A cool tv?"
Her: "No :P"
Me: "A Nintendo Wii?"
Her: "No :P"
Me: "Alright, well you gotta have a kitchen... I'll take that in the divorce"
Her: "hahaha my kitchen?!"
Me: "Yeah... and guess what you can have.... ALL MY BILLS!"
Her: "haha, we just met and you're already talking about getting married?! :P"
Me: "Of course... and a divorce... we're gonna have a quick romance."
Me to her friend: "So me and your friend really like eachother... are you cool with that?" *while hugging my girl*
Her friend: "Uuuhh.. Yeah... sure.. why not."

Some more talk, they were gonna go at this point, so instead of plowing through (which I can now see was a mistake to NOT do, even though I totally had nothing left to say.) I went for the numberclose.
Me: "Lemme grab your number, cause you're cute and I want to see you again. And when it's time to go home we'll grab that bus together ;)"
#numberclose
Her friend said something, can't remember what, to which I replied: "Oh... I'm just gonna start stalking her and call her 3 times a day, but that's about it."
Her friend: "Oooh haha, well if that's all, then fine :P"

Her friend: "So aren't you going to buy her a drink?"
lol wtf? Totally unexpected. Maybe she wanted to grab a free drink before they went off, or maybe she was trying to wing me... but I doubt it, cause throughout the interaction she was being a massive cockblock.
Me: "Uhhhh... sure, when I meet you guys later I promise I'll buy her a drink"
*Now thinking back, I should've bought her a slapshot... not sure if her friend would like it though if I did it in front of her. It would've been awesome nonetheless.*
*Also, buying her a drink allowed for more 3D escalation, and some more time to think of more stuff to say/do.*
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*A girl had to pass through to get to her friends.*
Me: "Sure, but you have to introduce yourself first, else you can't pass"
*Started the IOM, and all throughout the interaction I was curling my fingers in hers, stroking her hands, etc... she didn't reciprocate"
*The whole interaction I played with her hands, put them on my body, got in close, put my hands on her hips/lower back and repeated the process*
Me: "You look like you lost your friends"
her: "No I didn't, they are right over there actually." *points in the distance*
her *out of the blue*: "I WANT TO GO DANCE" *drags me to the dance floor*
lol wtf? That's never happened to me before. Pretty awesome. She was leading me to the dancefloor while holding hands.

Me: "Wow, you're so sexy, if I hadn't just met you I would totally kiss you right now... I have a rule though, I don't kiss in bars." (Saying it while touching her cheek with mine, because it was so damn loud in there)
*At this point I didn't really want to dance*
me: "Come here" *Led her back outside again*
blablabla (talk about logistics/school/passions)
- A friend of hers drove her there

I was mostly just being silent and looking in her eyes, at one point she blurted out: "You're really cute!" to fill the silence... awww I like compliments :)

And at this point I fucked up... I don't know why, but I wanted a makeout lol, she was really hot. Maybe to boost my ego, or maybe to show off to my friends... or maybe because the sexual tension was so high that I just totally wanted to taste her sexy lips.
So... I walked her off to a corner outside the club and basically said "Well... my rule was that I don't makeout in bars... but technically we're not IN a bar anymore, and went in for the kiss (The gap wasn't very far to kiss her because we were already standing really close, touching eachother.)"
The makeout was not too long, and not too short. Like 30 seconds I think.
Afterwards I kinda picked up on my (obvious) mistake and told her: "I hope no one saw that... I like being discreet", etc
At this point I should've sat down and do strawberry fields. But it didn't came to mind at the time.
She had to get back to her friends so I numberclosed her and we agreed to meetup later in the night.
I also forgot to ask her plans for later. Damn. I should've tried to go for the pull?
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Spotted 2 gorgious girls, I think it was the only one that I approached intentionally throughout the night from across the room. Asked for them to take a picture of me and my friends. And then afterwards started talking to her.
Me: "Hey, I'm Coldman btw"
Her: "blabla I have a boyfriend", saying it with a straight and whiny face... she definitely was not interested.
Me: "Awesome... yeah my boyfriend is over there as well."
Me: "So how do you guys know eachother?"
Her ignoring me, playing with her phone.
Me: "Btw, you TOTALLY SUCK at making photo's... you're like the worst photographer EVER! haha it's all black and there was no flash!"
*Note: My phone doesn't have a flash*
Me: "I give you a 4 out of 10 at making pictures."
Her still ignoring me.
Me: "Hmmm... I know you don't actually have a text or are doing anything useful on your phone there..."
Her still ignoring me.
Me: "Wouldn't it be so awkward if I were to just stand here throughout the night, saying absolutely nothing?"
Her still ignoring me.
Me *turned to friend*: "Is she always like this?"
Her friend: "She has a boyfriend"
Me: "I never said I wanted to be her boyfriend"
Her friend: "Hey.. let's go"
Me: "Nah, fuck it, you guys stay, I'm gonna go ;) Have a nice night."

This interaction was fun, I had fun just messing around with them.


At one point the bartender came up to us trying to get us to buy drinks. All throughout the conversation I made statements that she's cute, that I liked the flower she had in her hair, and asking for logistics (what time she got off and how she got there, etc), I was also telling her that when she got off work that we would go back to my place lol. She smiled throughout the conversation and wasn't offended at any point. I'm gonna start hitting on bartenders more haha it's fun.

Throughout the night I didn't really approach. I only opened girls that walked past me or that I walked past. But I ALWAYS ALWAYS introduced myself to as many people as I could that were in close proximity.
and all throughout the night I was thinking to myself: Everyone is my friend. Had oneliners with random guys. Stuff like when the music stopped for a second: "Wait for it! It's coming...!" (Him agreeing/smiling)
Was talking to random guys at the bar, screening for logistics? lol (It's so automatic now, who are you here with, etc)

My overall vibe was being playful and teasing, smiling the whole time with a "everyone is my friend"-mentality. I also didn't give a shit and was saying whatever came to mind AND THAT I THOUGHT WAS FUNNY/IMPORTANT TO SAY. (Sometimes random thoughts came into my head and I went: Nah... that's not fun/important, so I let it go.)


I'm still not setting up the date before numberclosing (I forgot), I have a feeling they're gonna flake.
The sexual tension mostly came from nonverbals. Her blurting out: "You're cute", is a definite sign that there is sexual tension present.

The Daygame Blueprint (in-field)

This is where I've learned the most. At first I was coming up WAY too close and creeping girls out, but I slowly realized this. The best feedback you'll get is from the girls themselves. Look at them and see if they're excited or scared. And then see what action you did to cause this.

Anyway, there were 3 days in-field, the 1st day was about getting the approach right. And the last day was actually the same thing, because I kept going for 2 sets and just COULDN'T get them to stop for the life of me... probably because of the stuttering on the opener, due to my crappy English.

Now the 2nd day... was the most awesome of them all, because I requested to be teamed up with Sasha... and I did.

But before I get into the breakdown of it, here are some things I've done right over the course of 3 days IN-FIELD:
- Stopped girls and made them genuinely smile (made their day)
- Approached my first 2 set even after the bootcamp (in my own free time) - AND I got them to stop and she loved it, was actually speechless with a huge smile. I also stayed in there even when I ran out of shit to say and just said the first thing that came to my mouth: "That's... a..... uuhh... lovely.... red dress."
- Approached the first hot girl I saw in the morning when feeling like shit. (This instantly put me into the right happy-go-lucky state. (Important to note that she didn't say anything, basically ignored me and walked off.... but this didn't matter whatsoever)

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In-field with Sasha blew my mind away... I probably learned more in these 2-3 hours than I did over the course of a year. Though I was madly confused at the same time.

I think that if I would've payed all this money for just these 2-3 hours without the whole Daygame Blueprint... then I would still do it.

Here are some of the conversation highlights (Paraphrased from memory, of course):

Me: How do you get to that point of not giving a fuck like you have?
Sasha: On my bootcamp I make guys do crazy shit, like sitting on the sidewalk highfiving everyone. Or going into a Burger King and ordering a Big Mac. After doing stuff like this you stop giving a fuck what people think. And you've just gotta enjoy the awkwardness man, I enjoy watching woman squirm when I make it awkward for them.

Sasha: What Yad and Andy are teaching isn't direct... "You're so cute, I had to come meet you", isn't direct... what the hell is cute... if you see a girl walking on the street then you want to fuck her, if you don't then you're gay.
Sasha: Tell her the truth, tell her she's fucking sexy/hot; "Hey... I have to tell you something, you are so fucking sexy/stunning!".
Sasha: Go in close and whisper in her ear: "You're so fucking sexy, I wanna put my dick in your pussy" and back off... this will make her horny. And it's the truth.
Sasha: Whatever you're learning in there is great for beginners, but it's all based on Yad's style, he's very charismatic, he should be a TV host or something, but most guys aren't like that and it's not gonna work for them. It's bullshit man, you just gotta be direct with woman. Yad basically tricks woman into bed and when he gets them on his bed he then starts escalating with them.

Sasha: Alright, go over to that girl and tell her: "Whoever stood you up is a son of a bitch"
Me: *Opened the girl like Sasha said*
Her: "Oh, haha, I'm not being stood up, but I AM waiting for someone"
Me: "Alright awesome, hmmm... well I just run out of stuff to say"
Her: *blank stare*
Me: "Yeah... hot girls tend to make me nervous"
Her: "Oh... great..." *rolls eyes*
*silence*
Me: "awkwaaaaard"
*silence*
*silence*
*silence*
Me: "Alright, well I'm gonna go... cya"
Me: *To Sasha* Well... that was the most awkward moment of my life.
Sasha: Good, enjoy the awkwardness.

*After opening a girl direct*
Sasha: Yeah, that's good man, but next time smile more... you don't smile enough. Also, don't touch when you go THAT direct, it's TOO much.
Me: Yeah, I noticed the shock in her face haha, I don't even think she meant to go in that store... she just wanted to get away from me.
Sasha: Yeah... I'm not gonna deny that, that's probably true.

Sasha: Alright... you go up to those 2 girls and tell the less attractive one (while maintaining eye contact), that you think her friend looks amazing and if she minds that you flirt with her for a bit. And then, without waiting for a response, introduce yourself to the attractive one.

Me: So after you go direct, then what do you talk about? passion? work?
Sasha: Yeah.. well, those are good. Just get to know her a little bit, what she's up to, is she shopping or meeting up with friends, her work/passions/hobbies.

*After another approach and getting a number*
Sasha: So what do you know about her?
Me: Her name is xxx, she's polish, works in carpenting (it's her passion too), she's heading home
Sasha: and...?
Me: That's it...
Sasha: That's not enough man, you basically don't know anything about her... you had what.. like a 5 minute interaction, that's too short to get a solid number.

Me: I once walked up to a girl and said, "Wanna fuck?", is that direct?
Sasha: Yeah, but it's really uncalibrated... you don't know her. You don't know if she's friendly or whatever.

Me: So if I'm not calibrated, then how soon do you tell girls to fuck them... you like first tell them they're fucking sexy on the opener and then..
Sasha: Dude... stop asking so many questions... you've got like an information overload in your head. Just go out there and stop worrying so much. Stop reading any material, Yad and Andy gave you MORE than enough, just go out there and try it out, and do the stuff that I've said to you earlier.

Me: Do you think the Direct Dating Summit DVD's will help me?
Sasha: uuhh, just do the things I've said to you for now, if you're not ready yet, you're not ready, but eventually everyone will get to do direct game because you don't want to waste time. I don't want to waste my time with a 20 minute conversation that goes nowhere... if she likes you, she likes you. If she doesn't, she doesn't... so what? Some chicks love short bald guys, any amount of game isn't going to change that, so just go direct.

After all this Sasha gave me a nickname... "The Questions Guy".

The Daygame Blueprint

That's right... I went all the way to London from Holland by train to attend this amazing event.

I met some of the most awesome people there:

 

Anthony Paul Johnson

 

Andy Yosha

 

Yad 

Yad (Discussing mad game tactics)

 

Sasha 

(Yes, he's as fun as you would think, but can be quite serious too)

And let me just say right now, that without the in-field training this event wouldn't be worth it. But because it DID have in-field training... this event was amazing. It was just walking down busy streets in London and running up to hot girls and trying to apply all the theory you had gained during the lectures. And whenever you had a question you could ask the training coach you were with.

And sometimes I forget, but now looking back... it was A LOT of fun chasing down girls on the street. Especially when the girls are kinda puzzled at first as to why you are there and after you give them the compliment their face lights up.

But most importantly... It felt amazing just feeling like a MAN and going after what I wanted and not letting fear/excuses hold me back.

Some quick reminders:
- Slow down, don't rush through the opener. (Get them to stop FULLY first)
- FUCKING SMILE
- Talk LOUDER (Presence)

- Go out and become as comfortable as you can be talking to hot girls (Through experience and not giving a fuck)
    - The same kind of comfortable when you're in the shower or in bed.
- State your intent and be (super) direct.
- Speak your mind, don't give a shit.
- Goal is getting to know her. Be genuinely curious about her.
- HAVE FUN
- Don't care about results, go for consistency (Open EVERY hot girl you see, the more you open, the more experience you'll gain)
- Be FED UP with NO results.

50/50 = Mastery. Yad solid closes 50% of the girls he approaches. That's 1 out of 2.

Low motivation to go out? But there could be what happened a few weeks ago... Think about GOOD experiences. And just have fun... find ways that you can enjoy the process.

What is your motivation of doing this? To be able to be FREE and have choice. And allowing other people opportunities and possibilities to be free.

When you don't feel like approaching, and you're not in the mood. It's cause you're thinking about approaching from a different state (usually a low energy, analytic state).
When this happens realize that this is happening, think about it, you've done it before so you CAN do it. And just go for it. I call this stateshooting. You SHOOT yourself into state. The rest of the day there will be almost NO FEAR to approach.
The power of now is basically getting into state (Andy focusses on breathing. Mark sings out loud and moves around a lot, focussing on movement)

Speak like when you're with your friends. Tonality -> Comfortable.

You're awesome and amazing... it's HER lucky day that you approached and chose her.

Preframe:
- I HAVE to tell you something really quickly...
- I know this sounds a bit random, but...
- *On Phone*: Is that important, or can you call right back?

Context:
- I saw you walking here...
- I was there in starbucks and I ran out,
    - Compliment
        - Now my friend is alone in there, being bored, stirring his drink and it's your fault!)
        - Now I'm standing here in the rain, getting wet... because of you.

Compliment:
- I thought you were cute and I HAD to come meet you/say hello/introduce myself.
- You're fucking sexy and I HAD to come meet you/say hello/introduce myself.

On bus/metro (any high pressure situation where she CAN'T leave easily)
Relate to her situation: "I shouldn't be doing this, but..."
Use time constraints: "I've got to go in a second"

Accuse girls of hitting on you.
- Eye contact? She's picturing you naked.

When you tell girls you're NOT hitting on them... you basically ARE, but it's funny. And it can never go wrong.
- Is this seat taken? Okay cool... I'm just gonna sit here cause I like this seat...
    ...I'm not hitting on you... you're hot, but I'm not in the mood today.
    - Well... now I feel like I HAVE to hit on you just to prove I can. So Hi, I'm *name*.

If she smiles and walks away -> ALWAYS RE-APPROACH
If she smiles and walks away -> ALWAYS RE-APPROACH
If she smiles and walks away -> ALWAYS RE-APPROACH

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DON'T FEAR THE VOID!
DON'T FEAR THE VOID!
DON'T FEAR THE VOID!
(The void is when you run out of stuff to say).
Fearing the void actually allows the void to be there, because you're focussing on it instead of focussing on being spontanious and letting thoughts flow freely. So accept and be okay with running out of stuff to say. Don't fear it, allow the fear to be there and realize it's fine. Your mind will come up with something eventually.

Say whatever comes to mind (it's REAL and in the moment), saying ANYTHING is better than NOTHING. (Silence is good... but to an extend.)
Slow down your talking so you have a longer time to think.

Make assumptions (Look at people and try and make assumptions about them to train this part of your brain)
Ask yourself first: "What does she do?" and then tell her the answer. "You look like..."
Ask yourself:
- What does she do for fun?
- Passions
- Hobbies
- Travel
- Daily Routines
- Where does she live?
- Favourite food
    - How did you discover that?

Write down 5 questions that REALLY interest you.

Always be PLAYFUL during the attraction phase.
Bait her to invest
Roleplays (2set, Devilish/Angelic, on my shoulder arguing like in the cartoons)
Challenge (qualify):
    Her: I don't like working for cafe "X".
    You: What are you on about? They have great coffee!
        NOT: Oh... why don't you like it?
Push/pull (Be unpredictable)
    - Does he like me? Or not... what's going on?
Knowledge
    - "Are you like a munich German... because when I was there I had a different vibe with girls)

Shittests? -> Ignore
Where are you from? "Mars".
Okaaay... *roll eyes*, or just ignore it completely.

Leading:
During attraction: Come here a second, we're in people's way
On a date: Tell her where to sit (Nono, this is way more comfy over here)
If she still doesn't comply go: "Okayyy... minus 10 points."

Instant date + time constraint (It'll only be for 10 minutes)
We're standing her anyway...
    - We've been talking for 5 mins now, and I'm gonna go grab a coffee anyway, tag along. I only got 10 minutes though. (Usually stay longer than 10 minutes)
Eye contact... "Comeon... It'll only be 10 minutes."
    - That's cool, well give me your number then... we'll do it another time. (Now you have a date set already, instead of a random number)
- Best coffee (weasel coffee), explain why it's the best. (Goes through digestive system of weasel, etc). Let's meet up at 7 tomorrow.

- False decisions:
    - Meet at 8 or 9?
    - Let's go on a date, tea or coffee?

Deep rapport (+/- 1 hour)
Family (Relationship with them)

Text: "Hey, it was nice to meet you, callback humor (Nice accent, don't lose it), keep in touch"
*Any text you're sending should make YOU smile, if it doesn't, don't send it*

Vibe = Screening & Rewarding.
The more she invests and gets rewarded... the more she wants the reward (Sex)
It's like a job interview, you won't be happy if you just show up and he immediately goes: You've got the job. It'll be much more rewarding when he gives you a tough interview and you've been selected out of all the other people.
So bait her to invest and qualify. Reward her for good behaviour.

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Pull home objections:
- Where are we going? "PARIS!", or "Go see the dolphins"
- But I don't know you "only 5 mins, I have to get up early anyway"

Playful obstacles -> Come back playfully
Logical obstables -> Put her at ease
    (e.g. I'm not coming up with you, you might be a murderer) -> Yeah right.. if you really thought I was a murderer would you spent 3 hours with me?

At your house: Admit nerves, make her feel at ease... give her the power.

10 minutes do NOTHING. No kino whatsoever. Make her feel at ease in a strange environment.
Go on your bed, put on youtube/TV and make HER show you stuff. Instead of you trying to "impress" her with some awesome youtube video.

When you're on a high note say: Would you like to lie down next to me? (HOLD EYE CONTACT WHEN ASKING)
Objections? Go: "Okaayyy" *roll eyes* (As in, she's crazy/weird for not doing it)
- I'll give you a kiss anyway *kiss cheek*

Physical Push/pull (PLAYFUL AND FORCEFUL, BUT NOT AGRESSIVE... agressive comes off as needy)
- Wanna dance? cool.. wanna see my fav dance move? Throw her on bed and kiss her neck.

Talk little bit (nerves are fine). After minute kiss, after she kisses back stop lips (Almost like... I shouldn't be doing this), she'll invest MORE... let her escalate.

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If you want to stand out, be yourself. Everyone else changes theirselves to be someone they're not just to get approval/validation.

Everything you're doing is a gift: Date/Sex. You're giving her what she wants already.

Everything in escalation is a gift, not a manipulative trick.

Escalation is a way of finding out about each other.
- What does she do for fun?
- What does her skin feel like?
- Does she like it when I touch her like this?
- What do her lips feel like?
And every time you get to a new level of intimacy, and at this new level you have new things to discover what she likes.

Woman fantasies are all about her being irresistable to men. Woman WANT to feel sexy... THIS TURNS THEM ON. Men slowly losing control (but not completely). Every woman wants to be that femme fatale that's destroying your sense of control and brings you back to that primal lust.

This is why it works when you see that hot girl and you approach. You get that GUT feeling and you just HAD to come meet her. This has to feel congruent and not like some script.

A woman's priority in dating is:
1. Social Value
2. Sex
(With men it's vice versa)

This is why BEING DISCREET is important (or being smooth)

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You have to lead at a pace that's comfortable for her. This is why calibration is important.

Always escalate with a smile.

The most important thing about escalation is making her feel comfortable + having FUN.

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Make a list of things you appreciate. (once a week, 5 things)
- I appreciate the subway, because it allows me to see my friends easier and get to my job.
- I appreciate my girlfriend, because of X Y Z.

What do you have to offer HER?
- A fun experience:
    - Orgasm
    - Good emotions
    - Awesome connection
    - Strong sense of safety

Make a bucket list with dates & prices and go do it.

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Some funny quotes:
Student: "Yeah, so I was talking to this girl and what do you do when you run out of statements? Because I was using statement after statement and after a while I didn't know what to say so I just said: Wanna make out?"

Instructor: "Alright, let's see, we've covered public transport, coffeeshops.. and now we've got..."
*clicks*
Instructor: "Beach?! I've never approached girls on the beach? What else..."
*clicks*
On the projector it says: "Jungle"
Instructor: "hahaha... damn you Andy! What else.."
*clicks* "The Vatican"
*clicks* "Farm"

Instructor: "So what do you guys want to hear about where to pickup girls?"
"Trains!"
"Parks!"
"In Gyms!"
"In Toilets!"