Your mind is just a display of conditioning of your past, of thoughts, of things people have told you, things you've read, your own idea's, things you've watched on TV.... all of which changes.

Think back 10 years and you'll probably think; "Well, I thought I knew what was going on then, but now I'm 10 years older and now I REALLY know what's going on"

But of course, in another 10 years you'll feel like what you knew now was very immature.

We're constantly growing, therefore to trust your own mind is a mistake.
From: The Way of the Superior Man (by David Deida)

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Loads of realisations

Just some quick gibberish for my own viewing:

bait to invest is awesome
bait girls to invest and you can gauge how much they like you
build it up
small investments turn into big investments (same goes for qualifiers)
I am comfortable talking to hot girls
I am comfortable giving statement of intents, they accept them.
Make jokes, be funny, do stupid shit, have a laugh, don't give a fuck
Make stupid role plays, do stupid kindergarden jokes, they're funny as fuck
Find girls who like you, not everyone does, but the ones that do are awesome to hang out with
ESCALATE FFS, pull the fucking trigger, ask numbers, go for kiss closes, pull her the fuck home
    you can't "BLOW" it, you can only escalate. If she doesn't go for it, she'll go for it later. It's not the end. She won't blow you out.
Make her invest, be comfortable with silence, you ARE comfortable with silence. When silence drops THEY will invest. They can't handle it and talk. They will qualify.
Don't be scared to get rejected, fuck it. Sure, some will reject you, but the others will be HAPPY to have an awesome interaction with you. Girls are awesome, screw the girls who aren't. They're not fun and you don't want to spend time with them anyway.
SILENCE IS FUCKING GOLDEN.
HALFAHUG IS FUCKING GOLDEN.
See how much investment you can get away with, if she declines. It's no big deal, DON'T TALK ABOUT IT, JUST DROP IT and continue the conversation, then bait her to invest in something smaller.
Come here, do a spin, highfive, halfahug, snakebite, silence, roleplays, statement of intents (YOUR FAULT), etc

Dancefloor game is NOT where you can go out alone, find a venue where you can have conversations with people, there is where you can go out alone.
Talk to EVERYONE, be sexual with girls you find sexually attractive and be SOCIAL with girls that aren't. Find out what their world consists of, their hopes, fears, dreams, what drives them, what makes them special, make them QUALIFY.
You are AWESOME, you don't need approval from anyone to prove this. You KNOW this. Find people who are awesome and who recognize that you are awesome.
Boring people suck, people who don't like you suck even worse, but you know who is awesome? People that are in for a good time. People that laugh at your stupid jokes, people that go along with your roleplays, people that are happy to talk to you and tell you all about them.

FUCKING PULL THE TRIGGER (APPROACH, ITS ON MOMENT (I like you), CLOSE)
She's hot, should I approach? FUCKING YES, and see if she's awesome or boring.
If she's awesome -> ESCALATE. If she's boring -> Leave... it's THAT simple!
It's not rejection, you're just not compatible, she doesn't feel your vibe, she doesn't like your jokes, it's fine, there are millions that do. Screw them and find the ones that actually like you. Don't waste your time on boring people.

p.s. When girls run out of shit to say, their standard response is: "I'm gonna go back to my friends", this does NOT mean she's not attracted. Just say ANYTHING (doesn't matter what) to keep the interaction going. ---> Roleplay, Bait to invest, Move her, Be comfortable with silence

1 comment:

  1. Wow... This was me 2 weeks ago? Insane... I felt like I got ''it''. Now I'm not too sure... Amazing that I actually believed everything written above, and even though these realisations are true... There is still doubt...

    These last few days I was too results oriented and with lack of results (or fewer than I want) I felt let down.... Results are cool, but it's not the focus. Focus on improving... Step by step, don't get discouraged.

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