Your mind is just a display of conditioning of your past, of thoughts, of things people have told you, things you've read, your own idea's, things you've watched on TV.... all of which changes.

Think back 10 years and you'll probably think; "Well, I thought I knew what was going on then, but now I'm 10 years older and now I REALLY know what's going on"

But of course, in another 10 years you'll feel like what you knew now was very immature.

We're constantly growing, therefore to trust your own mind is a mistake.
From: The Way of the Superior Man (by David Deida)

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

To kiss, or not to kiss... that's the question.

I've realized something with the help of some awesome people.

Ozzie from "The Physical Game" keeps talking about making out in clubs and how it's a goal to strive for, many other PUA's concur as this provides for more sexual comfort.

However 60 Years of Challenge says you shouldn't do it cause it releases sexual tension, which is bad if you're going for SNL (Same Night Lays), Nick Quick (Adonis) from samenightseduction.com concurs. (A natural friend of mine pulls girls and has sex with them without kissing them once, he says he only kisses his girlfriend. He's afraid of woman giving blowjobs in clubs and afterward him kissing them.)

In my experience some chicks love it, but some (most) find it tacky because it shows indiscretion. (And going for SNL you'd want to show discretion right, else ASD (Anti slut defense) kicks in and they refuse to go home with you in fear of being perceived as a slut in her friends' eyes).

Also woman need the whole backwards rationalization, to not feel like a slut that just hooks up with random dudes in clubs; "We were just going to his house to play Guitar Hero, and one thing led to another and we just had sex".
This doesn't really work anymore after you've kissed her and her friends see it. If she leaves with you it'll be obvious what's up.

So after some consideration I'm kinda leaning towards not making out in clubs now.

I'll probably only kiss in full blown isolation, somewhere in a corner where nobody sees it. And even then it's better not to... it decreases sexual tension, the most useful thing to pull SNL's.

One time I went out, on a not-so busy night, I was having a full on make-out session at the bar for the entire club to see... needless to say that woman were harder to open up after that. (Bartender got mad and threw lemons at us, telling us to get a room and shit lol)

Anyway, there's all these reasons NOT do it, and few reasons to do it.... (Oh yeah, it feels good too ;) Physically AND for the ego. But FUCK the ego, right?)

So you should stop being a mere “make out artist“ and start being a seducer who actually takes women home for sex.
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